Still pondering on this situation! Sorry! But you ask a somewhat nebulas question.
I know it gives me a chance to meet with my Broters who while nothing else, WE Have this in common!
Brothers have thrown parties out of their pockets, had Brothers to their Kids Weddings, We have been to each others Funerals, We Celebrate and Cry together!
I am not totally understanding what you are asking for but I hope I am getting in the right directon!
It seems no one else undrstands as ya and meese seem to be it!