I have read this several times and am still having a hard time trying to get to your point!
I will try to explain as best as I understand!
What do I as the # 1 Alum get out of my Fraternity.
I get to work with young men who are not as old as the underwear I have in my drawer! They Help Keep Me On My Toes!
I get together once a month with Alums, all whom came after me and we sit and BS! At One BS and Beer meeting as I love to call it, 12 Brothers from 60 to 28 were laffing so damn hard that there were tears streaming down our cheeks!
We go down 2 times a year to have a mentoring session with the Active Chapter and New Associates and work with them!
We are in the Process of trying to get a new house built for the Brothers at the Pitt.
I have been to many of my Chapers houses and was at one yesterday! We have so many new associates that we need help in getting them Initiated in a timely fashion! These Brothers said hey we would love to come down and help you! That is what it is all about.
While I am from a differnt Chapter, they are there to help.
While I have love for my school that I graduated from, If not for the Members of my Fraternity, I would not go back!
I go back to be with my Brothers!
I hope I have given some insight, if not, please let me know and will be happy to go on with this!
Mainly Though, All Of These Young Men, and We get Maturer, want something to come back to and see and be with! Relight the Candle of Freindship!