One of my sisters went to three prefs... KD, AGD and AOPi. She wanted KD so bad she could taste it but for whatever reason wrote KD first and then AGD second and didn't put a third choice. She didn't get KD. She was so hurt, and her Rho Chi, who was a KD told her that she should go to the bid day for AGD even though she said she didn't want the bid. Her rho chi told her that things happen for a reason and at least give it a try. She did, and now, three and a half years later she is a rho chi for next fall. She says that she wouldn't want to be anything but an AGD now, because that is where her home and heart is.
One of the women we got last year suicided Phi Mu and didn't make it. She came to our bid day party with her roommate and now she says she wouldn't be paid to be anything but AGD. I know sometimes you think you were cut for no reason and it hurts to be rejected, but everything does happen for a reason.. someone up above looks out for you to help you home.
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"...and love her for her womanhood."
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