Dear CRMSNTiDEGRL717:
Don't worry, I thought I wanted AChiO, and when it didn't work out during their informal rush, I came back for Fall Formal, and knew then I that fate had lead me to Theta. Now, after being active, and knowing all the houses, there was no other house on this campus that could fit me as well as Theta. Things happen for a reason.
My best friend convinced me to come back to Fall rush after the disappointment in informal, it is wasn't for her, I would have never gone back. She wanted AOPi above all others, and set her sights, she ended up being cross dropped, and didn't get a house. Theta wasn't the kick butt house, like the others 'seemed' to be, so she didn't even try, and got dropped...she ended up with nothing. I felt really bad getting a bid from all the houses that I wanted, but I also tried hard at every house to speak to as many girls and hold good conversations. You have to be yourself, you have to showcase yourself. If you don't get into your #1 house, any house you will a small group of friends that you click with. In now way can you ever be friends with all 100 girls, you are lucky if you find 30 girls you are very good friends with...
Don't worry, good luck!
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*Nancy*
*Kappa Alpha Theta*
*Zeta Theta Chapter*
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