Hi--
Many, many on this board didn't get our first choice or dropped out the first time because we didn't like our returns. I don't believe that anyone felt like it was character-building at the time...however,
we're all happy now!
The summer before I rushed the second time, I was a basket case because of nervousness and because my camp counseling job ended a full month before rush started. My parents made me go volunteer and stay busy otherwise and I'm glad. If you have 1 job, work extra or get a second one! Volunteer! Do anything you can to keep your mind off rush!
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