I did a search and found this article in the Daily Mississippian. All I can say is wow, don't sugar coat it!
I think you should save your money Tink.
http://dm.olemiss.edu/archives/99/99...Nmcdermid.HTML
Although when I read Panhel's response I had to stifle a gaaaaaaaack re their "dressed as they consider appropriate" comment. There was a great piece in the Wall St Journal that suggested banning the words "appropriate" and "inappropriate" because they are PC words that say absolutely nothing. Plus if you are a first semester freshman, you often have to purchase a new wardrobe anyway. I think if Panhel really wants to help women through rush they should initiate a campaign to have a fully functioning NPC website (with rush tips that fit the school, region and climate) at every school where sororities are located. There are some sites that do a great job and put rushees' minds to ease but they are the exception, not the rule.