ictyre,
here was our misunderstanding. i was not talking about judging people in only a bad manner. i guess it was improperly worded. i simply meant that when i meet someone, and get an impression of them, it is not related to their race. it is related to them only. such as--when i get in a disagreement with someone, it is because of what that person did to me, not because they are white/black. trying to explain this is hard, but i honestly was not talking about "judging" in only a negative manner. please let me know if this has cleared up what i meant. i just get very hurt when i read people say "white people are only in things for themselves." please don't think that. yes, there are many people who are only in things to better their own "kind", but there are many more who are not out for purely selfish reasons.
anyways, now that that is out of the way. i am an alpha chi omega. i see that your email in your profile says "apathetapsi@". is that your fraternity?
Peace
