Hi HeidiHo!
Here's the MAIN thing to remember when you are trying to assess whether someone else might be dirty rushing you:
No ONE sister has the right to speak on behalf of the entire sorority. Period! The slightest exception might be made for the president and rush captain - if they indicate that they like you it's usually a VERY good sign - but those are the two people in the chapter who would never be so careless as to commit a rush violation.
One girl can't promise you a bid, because she has no idea how her sisters will vote/decide. One girl can't tell you how everyone feels, because she doesn't know for sure.
Good luck!
[This message has been edited by Texas Alum (edited December 29, 2000).]
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