at my college we are forbidden to say anything to/in front of freshman girls bashing any of the sororities. i've actually had a couple of (pretty bold) rushees ask me to list the various reputations of the sororities on campus... we just basically aren't allowed to say much of anything. of course, the girls just hear it from the guys anyway.
it's kind of hard to explain what defines your sorority without comparing it to other groups, though... i mean, i'm sure each of the houses thinks its girls are genuine, fun, etc.
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