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I have some questions, and I really don't mean for them to sound harsh or insensitive so I hope it doesn't come out that way. Do the women that were just given bids know that their new sisters consider them to be adding credibility to the house being known as "fat bitches"? Do they know that they were picked just for the sake of numbers? Do the women in the house right now know that some of their sisters consider them to be "wackos"?
I just know that if I were a new member, thrilled and excited to have gotten a bid and be a part of a sisterhood, and I found out that my sisters were sad that I got a bid and upset because I was helping to ruin the house's reputation, I would be devastated. And then I would be extremely pissed off, and I might not be too excited about improving the image of the house anymore.
Does this make sense? Maybe it would help to embrace the situation as it is right now before the members try and force makeovers on anyone. I'm sure there may be new members who know that they are looked down upon, but there may be a new member or two who is just terribly excited about the fact that she was given a bid and is accepted despite her appearance. When she finds out otherwise you might just lose her.
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