amen, Cash, amen! Tired of EVERYONE generalizing. I am neither white or black, the love of my life and is beautiful black man. And he is SO sick of his black female friends giving him crap for dating me. Someone said something about how he dated a white woman and black girls got mad -- the same black girls that wouldn't go out with him in the first place. "What was I supposed to do? Wait around." Very good point. My man asked me out because he thought I was beautiful, he thought I was well spoken, intelligent, and he loved my confidence. He has dated his share of black women, white women, etc. As for him being afraid of a "strong" black woman: His black ex girlfriend is an insecure, possessive, jealous, dramamtic, overly dependent whore (she slept with a friend of his) -- he appreciates me because I am confident, strong, and independent and he know I wouldn't let him walk all over me, his friends and family respect me -- unlike the way her personality screamed she probably would (even though he is too much of a gentleman to do so). So drop that arguement too.

That's my $0.02 cents