First of all, let me say that I am familiar with both "Grace" and "GPBLtC".
I "met" Grace via email and PMs last year when she went through Recruitment and we chatted about her situation and we both hoped that she would be considered for a bid by the USA chapter. I have never heard the AGD chapter's version of what happened last year and this year..even if I did, I would not discuss it. That is private information.
I have and will again say that I think that GPBLtCol is one of the most pro-Greek members I have ever met!! She believed in the Greek life so much that she was instrumental in starting a Panhellenic Council in our area.
I took her message to mean that she was mad/upset that Grace was unable to share the wonderful Greek experience that initiated sisters and brothers share at this time.
Grace, I wish you the best of luck and hope that you are able to one day find a meaningful relationship with one and/or several collegiate organizations!