Let me just say, I will be glad when this move is all over. I am tired and stressed. But I'm making it.
Classylady, my decision came from a few things, pretty much all that you listed (CT4, please deflate the big head, lol

), just not the way you meant them, probably. I just needed a new environment. There is no job, yet, but I'm still searching, but I had to let this one here go. And the love also gets left here, hopefully I will find some there, lol, if not, I'm cool with myself. And yes, this will put me closer to CT4 and my spec. All in all, I feel like it is a win/win situation for me!!!
People, people, can a sista get a job?!?!? LOL After I find some gainful employment, I will most def be in NYC, Philly, etc. And you KNOW I will let yall know!!! Once I get a job, I can travel and partake in the libation that is Alpha Punch! However, if you are willing to sponsor a sista, I will be able to visit and whatnot whenever! lol

*sigh* I feel so loved!
Heffa Ex, I regret to tell you that there may not be any after Turkey Day festivities for me. If I am settled and secure financially, then I'm still there. But for now, I doubt it.
Time for lunch...