[justamom]

AXOLiz, you, and I am sure others, judge yourself too harshly.
This is why I said what I think is important is "class". The problem with "class" is, it's a very subtle characteristic and doesn't show itself in an obvious way.
You can dress it up, make it up and change it up, but unless there is quality at the heart, nothing else matters.

EDITED-Had to differentiate my thoughts so Liz wouldn't think it was a run on!

Being spiteful and sarcastic and the first one with a commentary isn't personality.
Wearing Bebe and carrying Prada doesn't denote polish.

How you treat others and how you present yourself MENTALLY and hopefully, GRACIOUSLY are more important than all the BMWs or Cosmo nail polish colours in the world. Many have said they aren't a bit familiar with the person in their Freshman photos. You can ALWAYS improve the surface. It's very difficult to change what's inside.

I do sympathize with your dilema. If you are a lone voice, maybe others see wha you can not. If several of you feel the same way, then it would appear your problem is solved. Honestly, from a point of age and experience, I would say don't win the battle just to lose the war. There are more important issues than this girl's appearances that you will face in the future. Save your energy for the bigger battles.