About the whole waiting a year deal, girls at my school aren't usually seen as "used goods" as far as I know. But then I just became a sister, so its not like I'm a wealth of wisdom. Most girls I've talked to have taken the year to get to know sisters outside of the Rush atmosphere which helps them make a more educated choice(plus they are practically guaranteed a bid). I feel so bad for everyone who goes to the big school were they Rush is dirty and people get bullied into putting down sororities they don't want. My school's Panhel is very good about making Rush clean and the Rho Chis are great about being helpful and unbiased.
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