|
Okay, now it sounds like the discussion is not about looks all of a sudden. But to me, this is a pretty cut-and-dry issue... you should give bids to people who you think will fit in and represent your organization well. You have to have faith that the younger members will continue to do so long after you are gone.
If you do not believe that she will contribute to the success of the chapter, and could very possibly hinder it, then you don't bid her. However, if you are just using that as an excuse because she is not the most "cool" girl, then you should give her a bid.
|