I must agree with everyone. If you think she's a great woman BID HER
As someone else said, do you like to think the ONLY reason you got your bid is because you look a certain way ? I know I like to think I got chosen because the sisters saw something in me beyond my looks. They got to know me and saw something in me that Phi Sig could help enhance, and that I could help enhance Phi Sig. A sorority is about being there for each other, learning and experiencing things you may not have gotten the chance to otherwise, although it is fun to do, we are not just there to make the fraternity men drool.......