Definitely somewhat superficial, but we are girls, so... I understand!
Still, I agree with everyone else here... it is somewhat important to take looks into account, but it CAN NOT be the only thing. If my chapter had only judged girls on their looks in recruitment, I would have missed out on getting to know some of the sweetest, most intelligent women I know.
Also, I agree that you have to remember how much people can change. Look at some old pictures of yourself... I am sure you have grown and changed throughout college and the sorority experience. It may just be that this girl needs some friends who have confidence in her and can help her develop her own style. She could be a beauty in no time!
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