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shadokat, I told my daughter to say NOTHING to ANYONE! I remember a post that jokingly admitted as a Rho Chi when she found out who a top PNM really liked, she would either sneak back to her house or place a call and tell someone in the chapter. (Can't remember who-don't want to know)
Maybe it's just one of those "facts of life" that we all have to learn to work around. No matter where you go, what you do, there will ALWAYS be people trying to get the upper hand, the edge so to speak. As long as people in the position of power are suspect (and that includes everyone from a chapter's officers to alums) nothing can change.
When you can't get people to abide by the rules of any given "society" out of character and good conscience, then you
MUST turn to a method of penalization that hurts more than a slap on the wrist.
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