Dang this is still going strong! Hey Mr. Moderator has there ever been other forums that have went this long? Anyway........ thanks Mgdzkm433 I truly respect your opinion as well. Thanks Monique I am glad you understand. To answer someones question about is the problem with only White and Black dating for the most part for ME anyway yes it is. Although I would love to see Black men with Black women it does not sadden me to see one with people of Hispanic descent. Also actually Kobe and his future wife were not highschool sweet hearts Kobe is not originally from L.A. He met this girl on the set of a video shoot. Finally............ I want to say something to Black people........UNFORTUNATELY ARE PRESENT STATE AS A PEOPLE IS VERY WEAK CURRENTLY, AND I COULD GO ON FOR DAYS AS TO HOW IT IS WE BECAME THIS WAY BUT I WILL NOT EVEN BOTHER WITH HOW IT STARTED. I WILL SAY THIS THOUGH.........WE WILL NEVER(I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH) EVER GAIN EQUALITY IN THIS WORLD AS LONG AS WE CAN NOT GAIN IT AMONGST OURSELF. UNTIL THE DAY COMES THAT WE CAN SAY THAT NONE OF THE PAIN AND SUFFERING WE ENDURE IS AT THE HANDS OF ONE ANOTHER WE WILL CONTINUE TO STRUGGLE IN THIS WORLD. AS A PEOPLE WE HAVE A POOR SENSE OF WORTH AND WE CONTINUE TO HURT EACH IMMENSELY INSTEAD OF LOVING ONE ANOTHER. THE LOVE OF OURSLEVES IS KEY TO OUR STRUGGLE, WE SHALL NEVER OVERCOME UNTIL WE ARE STRONG AS A PEOPLE AND UNIFIED WITH A DEEP LOVE AMONGST OURSELVES. WE NEED TO REALIZE THAT THE GREATEST ACCEPTANCE WE CAN ACHIEVE IS THE ACCEPTANCE OF EACH OTHER NOT THE ACCEPTANCE OF OTHERS! UNTIL WE CAN LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, AND BE LOYAL TO ONE ANOTHER WE CAN NEVER BE THAT WAY TO ANY OTHER. IF THERE ARE SOME WHO THINK THAT ARE IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER OR THAT RESPECT OR ARE RESPECTED BY THE OTHER, OR THAT THEY TRUST OR ARE TRUSTED BY THE OTHER, THEY ARE SUFFERING FROM A FALSE SENSE OF LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, AND LOYALTY CAUSE ALL THAT BEGINS AT HOME. IF YOU DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF THEN YOU CAN NOT POSSIBLY LOVE ANYONE ELSE! I KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS BUT AS A PEOPLE WE ARE ONE IN THE SAME. I SEE THINGS SUCH AS INTERRACIAL DATING,ALLOWING WHITE PEOPLE INTO BGLOS ETC. AS ANOTHER WAY THAT WE WEAKEN OURSELVES. THESE THINGS WEAKEN BONDS THAT WE MAY ALREADY HAVE AND CHANCES OF BONDS TO BE FORMED. IT IS JUST ANOTHER WAY WE DIVIDE OURSELVES. IF THERE ARE SOME WHO DO NOT BELEIVE OR WHO HAVE YET TO SEE THE REPERCUSSIONS OF THESE THINGS TRUST ME WHEN I SAY YOU WILL ONE DAY SEE. IT IS NOT ABOUT HATRED, OR RACISM. YES WE CAN WORK WITH WHITE PEOPLE, GO TO SCHOOL WITH THEM, ASSOCIATE WITH THEM, HELL INVITE THEM OVER FOR DINNER. YOU KNOW, WHATEVER. BUT! OUR FAMILIES AND OUR ORGS(SUCH AS BGLOS) IS SOMETHING THAT IS OUR OWN. PRIVATE PERSONAL! THESE ARE THINGS THAT WE HAVE AND ARE FIGHTING TO MAINTAIN, THINGS THAT WE HAVE AND ARE FIGHTING TO KEEP IN GOOD STANDING, TO KEEP THEM STRONG. THESE ARE THINGS THAT WE HAD TO AND STILL HAVE TO WORK DAM HARD AT TO KEEP TOGETHER AND TO KEEP THEM POSTIVE AMONGST OURSELVES! WE DO NOT HAVE TO SHARE THESE THINGS WITH THEM NOR SHOULD THEY HAVE TO SHARE THEM WITH US. WE ARE DIFFERENT! WE ARE VERY DIFFERENT! OUR LIFES WILL ALWAYS GO IN DIFFERENT WAYS. INTERGRATION MAY BE A GREAT IDEA IN SOME ASPECTS OF OUR LIVES BUT IT IS NOT SUCH A GOOD IDEA IN OTHER ASPECTS OF OUR LIVES. HOW CAN YOU KEEP THE BLACK FAMILY STRONG IF ONE OF THE HEADS OF THE FAMILY IS NOT BLACK? ITS REALLY NOT EVEN CONSIDERED A BLACK FAMILY ANY LONGER, RIGHT? SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN ONE DAY THERE ARE JUST NO MORE BLACK PEOPLE AT ALL?........ I JUST WANTED TO GIVE YALL SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT. I AM DONE WITH THIS TOPIC. I WANT TO SEND LOVE OUT TO ALL PEOPLE, BECAUSE I DO LOVE ALL PEOPLE. i JUST HAVE A GREATER AND MUCH DEEPER LOVE FOR MY PEOPLE AND IF THAT MAKES ME A RACIST........... THEN HELL, SO BE IT!
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