I didn't go thru formal rush, but a roommate of mine did.. she ended up w/o a bid (I'm guessing because she was a junior, but whatever). Anyways, her Rho Chi actually called and LEFT A MESSAGE that she didn't get a bid. That was HEARTLESS. I'd say, if any girl in your group gets no bid, try your best to go spend a half hour w/ her and tell her to her face. She's going to need a shoulder.