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AlphaSigLana, I don't necessarily think it's wrong to tell your chapter if a girl in your group is interested or not interested. I mean, if there's a girl who is really into your house, giving her a little extra attention during parties is ok. What's wrong is actually talking shit about other sororities to the PNMs. I think it's really common practice for the Rho Chis to tell their chapters how they are doing and such
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I have to disagree with this... When someone chooses to be a Rho Chi they disaffiliate from their chapter and pledge not to discuss ANY recruitment business with the members. If they start to bend the rules slightly by telling their chapter what girls are interested, it is only a matter of time before the rules become inconsequential and are not observed at all.
Also, a little exception like this, gives a chapter a very unfair advantage if they know how a PNM feels based off what a PX says. Say PNM Suzy likes ABC and DEF both equally, but her PXs are from DEF and GHI. Then DEF hears from the PX that Suzy likes them but ABC doesn't... DEF starts treating her with priority based on what they heard and she chooses to join there. However, ABC never had that information and therefore missed out on Suzy because of a PX breaking rules.
Okay, so that was long and rambling...