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Don't worry! I know it sounds easy for everyone else to say. But here's my story. I was super depressed when I graduated because everyone was getting engaged and married this year, and I was dating this guy who I cared for greatly, but knew deep down it wasn't going anywhere, and we'd been together for 2 years! Anyway, we finally called it quits just before graduation in May and I was convinced that I was a loser because I didn't meet anyone in college that I would marry, etc. So the night I took my nursing boards, July 18, my friend took me out to the same old bar I'd been going to since I was a Sophomore, and I met this guy I'd had my eye on for a few months (a bouncer). He's NOTHING like the man I envisioned myself every wanting to marry, but he's WONDERFUL! And we're already planning our wedding.
SO, point of the story, you NEVER know when you could meet him or how quickly everything could change for you. I figured I wasn't getting married till I was in my 30's but now we're talking in 2 years!! So don't get down on yourself, he's out there and he'll come to you when the timing's right for BOTH of you. Just because I wanted desperately to meet the man I was supposed to marry while I was in college, if I'd have met Phillip then, we definitely wouldn't have worked out. Everything happens for a reason, especially with timing and relationships. Hang in there, I think there's lots of us that could relate to how you're feeling.
and PS my friend is in the same boat, never had a boyfried in college, and she met a great guy last week where she works, so don't rule out the workplace already. They're much more mature (some of them) and ready to have a decent girlfriend. So you've got plenty of opportunity ahead.
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