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Don't forget about Pi Kappa Alpha. I've met a few of my brothers from our chapter at the University of the Pacific, and it sounds as if your boyfriend would make an outstanding Pike.
First, Pi Kappa Alpha looks for Scholars, Leaders, Athletes, and Gentlemen. I know that the UOP Chapter is an elite chapter of PiKA and upholds our ideals very well. From what I know about them, they are the kind of men that would make you proud to have your boyfriend affiliate himself with. They have won our "Philanthropic Donations" award for several years by donating something like 90-100K annually to charity. Simply amazing.
Second, there is a Pike on GC...Concise. He would be a good person to PM to find out more about the Pikes at UOP.
Finally, khakis and a polo should be fine unless otherwise specified.
Oh, one more thing. I went through deferred recruitment and would say that getting to know the brothers in the fall was a great way for me to get interested in Greek Life. I would also probably be seen as quiet and "square", so my advice would be to meet one or two brothers in each chapter and develop relationships with them. By the time second semester started, I knew exactly where I wanted to go and my decision was simple. Hopefully, the same can happen for your boyfriend.
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