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Originally posted by librasoul22
LOL!! Both of y'all are killing me. Rudey, I am with you. I hate when guys try to impress me with the innovative ways they kiss. I am sorry that you have had overly-agressive chicks.
My rules aresimple: Guys, all humans have an inate gag reflex. Best not to trigger it with your tongue. Also? Humans have a natural saliva manufacturer, and mine works just fine thank you.
BTW, Rudey, do you tell the girls that they are bad kissers? If not, you are just as guilty as the guys before you.
How DO you guys tell people when they are bad kissers? I just stop and say, "um, let's do something else," if it is our first time. If it is after the first time, and I have tried to coach them through Kissing 101, and it STILL hasn't improved, they gotta go.
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Do I tell them they're bad kissers? The answer is yes and no.
Being the very goal-oriented guy that I am, I know exactly what I want before I throw myself into that situation. So if I have this freshman girl in my room and she's a horrible kisser, I will probably keep going and hoping it leads to more.
If it takes a while with Ms. Bad Kisser, I'm feeling dehydrated, and it's going nowhere (in other words, she smacks my hand), I will tell her I'm tired and she should go and not tell anyone about it (I phrase it much better than that, I promise). So I don't explicitly tell her, but she should reflect on the night and make sure she doesn't treat the next guy's face like a blueberry pie in a pie eating contest.
And I truly find most guys who have "techniques" for kissing to be full of crap. The only technique that I have is to pay attention to the girl and do what she likes and to use my head and not overdo it. Why do you need a general guide to tell you how every single girl will respond?? If a girl enjoys you kissing the nape of her neck and you spend the entire time kissing her collar bone and ear, then you've missed out on what makes her happy and what will eventually get you rewarded.
And for the boys who talk about going down on girls so readily, I just have to say that's all BS. I'm sorry but no matter what anybody does, oral is not an enjoyable act (although waxing and whipped cream help). The girl is not going to make her secretions taste like your favorite flavor at Baskin Robins (I recommend pistachio). So what does that mean to you?? That a guy you hardly know just offers up the fact that he would go down on a girl so quickly? To me it sounds a little fake and desperate.
Optimist Prime, I don't mean to knock you but you can't tell me you will stop kissing the girl if you're not enjoying it, to then go down on her. You can talk all you want about how you enjoy that and how you're different from every other guy (you'd probably say you more mature...more sensitive...that you want the girl to be happy), but that's just crap.
-Rudey
--Suck me beautiful