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Does he know that you all are interested in him? Is he interested in joining a fraternity?
If he has just been hanging out, do not give him a bid without making sure he is interested or it might scare him away.
Talk to him about it if you do not know his feelings. If you do know he is interested, have a couple members go give him a bid in person... maybe you, the recruitment chair and the president.
Give him time to decide... it would be very nerve-wracking to have to decide on the spot. Also, remember to tell him why you are giving him a bid and how great you all think he is.
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