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Honey, I'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time.
First, you've done nothing wrong and its clear that you want to contribute to Theta, and I'm sure you will.
I would also suggest that you talk to an older sister for guidance. You could always begin with your big sister, or the VP of Membership, she would be a good person as well. When speaking to them do not focus on your other sister's personal shortcomings, be as dispassionate as possible in explaining the situation and look for solutions.
As for the drunk sister and the car damage. Ouch. She is just not a very responsible woman. Somewhere deep inside herself she might be very embarrassed about her behavior and is covering it up with inappropriate hostility towards you.
You definitely need more women around you as a support group, and you will have that if you take the right path. This is a situation in which your right actions will lead people to you. If you do not respond with gossip or fury and keep contributing and being a responsible member of Theta, women will come to you wanting to be your friend. I know that sounds Pollyannaish, but its not. People will know and be attracted to you by your actions.
If the woman you are having problems with continues to be negative she will only attract other negative people, or soon she will be left on her own.
I hope this is somewhat clear as I'm writing this very, very quickly. I hope everything works out for you, and let us know what steps you take to resolve this situation.
Good luck.
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