Christin,
My chapter just went one time around and on the 2nd time whoever had something blew out the candle and told us. Sometimes they would tell us if it was an engagement, pinning, lavalier...first.
Luckily the Alums know the loving cup song, and they do have a loving cup. I don't think they have a song book. It's kinda bare bones, that's why we need all the help we can get
Every week at chapter the advisor that week is going to teach a new song/cheer/chant.
My stuff is all old school too, like rem mem mem ber, friends, The Rose, Good ole AOII (done to Rocky Top), A O Cutie PI, the Mickey mouse song....