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I think "I" or "we" can be construed both in the wrong way esp. for girls who really believe that you are speaking on behalf of the org. even if you say "I".
our big probs. with dirty rushing are gifts, for somereason my campus is really big on giving gifts. A "gift" can be defined as any of these things: taking a pnm out to dinner and paying for her, taking a pnm or group of pnm's to the dairy queen and paying, paying for them to get into a bar, buying them alchohol, even if they are over 21, giving them anything with letters to keep or even drink out of! (ok, i think this is rediculous, bc i let my friends in other orgs drink out of my date party mugs and its no big deal!), and then anything else that one would consider a present. It's so bad, i don't think you could even give a PNM a quarter if she asked for it. How bad is that?
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