Brandi,
Heidi (SnowLady) is your girl on this one!
As for candlelights, is the order still 1st pass for sisterhood, 2nd lavaliering (dropping), 3rd pinning, 4th engaged, 5th married (or eloped--my first meeting as a initiate had an elopement candlelight, how exciting!) and then 6th pregnant?
Does the chapter have a copy of the songbook? Do they already know the Loving Cup song? Do they have a Loving Cup? I can't think of any songs or cheers other than all the "old school" stuff
Good luck, and congrats on advising. It's a wonderful way to support Mu Lambda, hard work but such fun.
Roses,
Christin