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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
For my SFs who are waiting/hoping to become a member what are you doing to keep your interests and to increase your attractiveness?
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1. I am working like you wouldn't believe on my grades and gpa. This is my first semester at a new school and I get a brand new GPA so there is no way in the world I'm messing up this go round.
2. I have involved myself in numerous activities: social, volunteer, civic, etc.
3. Praying for strength, a sound mind, FAVOR with everyone I meet, and for God to keep my eyes and ears alert to things going on around me.
Also, my interest now is different. I don't know who all here is religious, but since I have improved my relationship w/ God, I'm very relaxed and things do not stress me out anymore. It's weird but wonderful at the same time. At first I was sweatin' the deltas on the yard hard and breaking my neck to speak and whatnot....thought becoming a member would be the grrrrrrrreatest thing in the world....heart bout to jump out my chest every time I went to a forum or event (y'all know what I mean
) But now that I've grown, matured a lil bit more, realized that deltas are just people and not idols, and watched one of my best friends cross, I just think that if it's meant to happen, God will bring the opportunity. Don't get me wrong, my interest is still strong but I feel more at peace now.
Whats funny is that now I am informed of things going on w/ the chapter without even looking hard or asking, whereas before I was all hyped brighteyed & goofy and missing all kinds of good stuff. And how much more relaxed I am as members approach me and find out more about me. I don't know if anyone can relate...it's just late at night and I felt like typing what was on my heart.