okay, here's how rush goes for us....
first we have an informal...at like a cafe where everyone that is rushing is invited to...its like a get to know each other thing....
then after that there is a party down at our house...this is what we are doing the bonfire beach party
next we have a formal about a week later (every sorority on campus has a different day) so we go out to eat somewhere nice and pay for the rushee's and then have another party at our house...this is the theme i'm looking for????
at our campus there are 10 sororities...for the first week of rush two sororities have their informals each night (everyone is invited to this) and then for the formals each sorority gets their own night (you must be invited to attend a formal)....
i hoped that help...the theme i'm looking for is like something to decorate our house and garage for the after party...