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Old 09-09-2002, 09:21 PM
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Re: Sorors, SFs, One & All

[QUOTE]Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
[B]Hello Everyone,
It is that time of the year again. Some prospectives are getting acceptance letters and others are being rejected.

I have some questions for ALL BGLO sorority members. Did YOU join your sorority through a collegiate or alumnae chapter?

For those who joined via the ALUMNAE chapter,
A. Did you apply for membership during your college years?
B. While waiting for the chance to join, what did you do in the meantime?
C. While others around you were becoming members, how did you stay focused on the mission of joining the sisterhood that you felt lead to pursue?

I joined the sorority through an Alumnae chapter, and I would NEVER trade my experience for anything! I did not apply as a collegiate member, and in hindsight, I am glad that I did not. I have friends to this day that did not get accepted (through alumnae and undergrad chapters) , and they are still trying. They definitely do not want to be "T-Shirt" wearers, they want to work!!! I stayed focused because the process judges each individually. Although we all just knew we'd be crossing those sands together, it was not up to us. After many tears, and long times where we didn't talk, we still have our friendship and they don't have to worry about searching for an ACTIVE Delta to help them in their process!

If a prospective wants to be a part of Delta for the right reasons, they must continue trying no matter how many times they're rejected. A rejection is not going to deter a determined woman.

Just keep your goal in sight and know that there will be plenty of work to do in DST if and when you arrive!!! And let me stress that there is so much work to be done!!!
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