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Since I'm not in a sorority I can't begin to say how the whole rush thing works but here's what I've been thinking.
If there are only 4 groups with 2 PNMs on a active and all the rest are one-on-one why can't there be a trade off if there aren't enough actives to go around? Me and Suzie will talk one-on-one for 10 minutes and then another PNM would was one-on-one will talk as a 3 person group while another 3 person group could go invidiual for a few minutes? Does this make any clear sense? It just doesn't seem right when at least 90% of the PNMs were able to be open and freely talk one-on-one while the other 10% of us were trying to fight for time to talk. I would just think that maybe a little trade off would combat that. Start as a 3-person group then go to one-on-one and vice-versa.
I understand the whole lets see how potential new sisters can get along together, but when you are still in the stage of getting to know someone, it just makes things really complicated and difficult. I know that when I left that party a few girls had commented on how it made them feel being 2 on 1. Like me, they felt they hardly got to talk or say anything.
I realize that some actives were walking around passing out desserts but when I'd turn around it just seemed like 5-7 girls were standing around talking.
I'm not trying to be rude, just saying that if this situation can't be avoided there should be ways to make everyone feel special.
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