Hey, watch it, Librasoul.  That's my man you're moving in on!
I usually start out slow, then pick up intensity as we move along.  
If I don't like the way a guy kisses me, I usually tell him.  Not bluntly; I don't say, "You're a bad kisser."  Usually just things like "Gently" or "Slower."
I've made boys cry.
