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Ok, I read the TBSG thread and if what she was saying about people standing around was true, then yes, that wasn't a good move on the sorority's part, so sorry if I was a little testy before. Keep in mind, however, that this is a one-sided story and that a pmn has no idea what goes on behind the scenes of recruitment on the members' side. I'm sure there are things that pmns are confused about when they are going through recruitment that make perfect sense to the sisters (I was a COB, so I'm just taking a guess at that). It is quite possible that the sisters she saw had a specific task to do, or that they were waiting to bump, etc. So basically, I agree with Leslie, we can't jump down a chapter's throat after hearing one side of the story. Yes, we can sympathize with the pmn and we can hope that she eventually finds her place, but sometimes things happen for reasons that we don't know about.
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