*Rolls eyes*
Jeez, Craig, don't you just have me figured out?!
Yeah, I feel like I'm in high school. The guy that I'm currently seeing, though (still haven't passed the two week mark, though, so let's not get TOO excited) I've known since April. He went to Cream Rose (and he wears his shirt, too... I make him) with another sister. I had a crush on one of his brothers and always went to the "Sigma Chi bar" to go watch him bartend, but ended up getting more the attention of the first guy. Didn't give him a chance until this semester, though, and now we're together. Well, kinda... But we'll see how long this one lasts.
The problem is, actually, not that I'm in high school, but I always have to have the best, so I'm constantly looking around. About a year and a half ago, I was two steps away from being engaged (sad, isn't it?) to a Kappa Alpha from Newberry College (which is known as the best fraternity in South Carolina). His dad's extremely wealthy, he was extremely good-looking, well-dressed, and drove a nice car. But I was dating him for the wrong reasons. The problem is, when we broke up, I couldn't get over the thought that perhaps he was the best I could get, so I was constantly dating what I thought might be the best, without looking deeper. I've dated, now, two fraternity presidents just because I thought they were the best. The problem is, they weren't the best for me.
So, the guy that I'm seeing may not be the fraternity president, or the hot bartender that I was drooling over last semester, but I think he's a lot closer to what the best may be for me. He's still good-looking, nice dresser, GREAT body, but he's that everything more that the other guys didn't have. I laugh all the time when I'm with him, I'm comfortable with him, the brothers all treat me well, and I always get invited to the BEST parties. Well, not like that didn't happen before.
Anyway, like I said, we'll see if I can make it past the two week mark, and then we'll talk. But, the thing is, if we don't, then your theory about hanging out with someone before dating is pretty bogus.
PS-I think I might be coming down for the UF game to the DG house... I'm not sure yet about all the details. Just a little FYI for ya.