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You know... I think sometimes we forget...
anniesigkap, wrote something similar in another thread: In most cases we have not meet the PNMs on GC. However, each chapter has meet them (even if for a short time), reviewed their resumes/recruitment applications, recommendations and in some cases there are girls in the chapter that know the PNMs. If the chapter drops the PNM then they must have decided that maybe she was not the best fit. Or vice versa... if the PNM drops a chapter, she must have decided that they were not a best fit for her. ***This does not include the small percentage that falls through the cracks.***
I have seen lots of PNMs go through rush, not receive a bid, get snapped, COB, or even participate in formal recruitment a second time... ending successfully and happily!!!
I think while we should be supportive/sympathetic/helpful... we should not say things like: "You should COB; I know they'd LOVE to have you!" (Yes, that is written in another thread).
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