I hear a lot of questions regarding recommendations, and the first thing I must say is that it obviously varies from school to school and GLO to GLO. However, don't get too worried, because I have heard of both of the following:
The chapter gets out and finds that rec. They hunt down alums until they find someone who knows her, and they get the rec themselves.
OR
The rush adviser herself writes the rec, based on meeting the woman at the rush party, and the decisions of the collegians.
Bottom line, if a chapter really wants you, it is their burden, not yours.
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