TBSG, please do not feel like YOU did something - that chapter's rush skills were terrible. It would have been one thing if they had too few sisters to talk to all the PNM's, but to do what they did? Come on, my chapter sucked at rush and even we knew better than that. Not to mention if we saw a PNM speaking for another we would have separated them quickly.
Try looking into the service sororities and local social sororities at Truman - you might find the sincere sisterhood (pardon my Sorority Life quote
) you are looking for there. Keep your head up and stay positive!