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Don't give up on him - keep in touch with him and let him know you are all thinking of him and he is still your brother. But if he has issues that he needs to take time off to resolve, let him do it. I'm afraid you guys will end up being surrogate parents/therapists, and that is just way too much to ask of 19-20-21 year olds.
The first step for him is admitting he does have problems and needs to get help. Just don't let him fall off the face of the earth.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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