To the woman who PM'd me, I have attempted to reply to what you have written, but your box is full so I will reply here.
Concerning what I wrote about "Old School" in my last post, I meant it. The comments that you made(wrote) were so ridiculous to a point that they were offensive.
For you to think that members in alumnae chapters are not as serious about DST as the undergraduates tells me that you have'nt reached that point yet. I'd dare you to go to a member with that sentiment and see what happens.
Those women who you are now interacting with at your campus are not gonna be in college forever, and eventually will affiliate with a graduate chapter.
Instead of worrying about who is "real"? or "Who pledged"? Worry about whether you will continue to be active and financial if you are blessed to be chosen. Once again the "wave" is not gonna change for you. Those fish were swimming before you got there and will be if you decide not to swim.
Lastly, don't worry about how I know? That is not a question that you ask someone.
Now... will you please answer the question posed at the beginning of this thread.