I would be very hesitant to involve a non-Greek in anything regarding my sorority's letters. Not that I'm against dating non-Greeks. However, I've just learned from experience that it takes another Greek to understand what Kappa really means to me. Non-Greeks just tend to look at me funny and get a little cross-eyed. I might lavalier my S.O. if I thought he could possibly understand the significance of my placing Kappa's letters on him. It says that I value him as much as I value Kappa, and that's a pretty hefty claim.
Optimist, on my campus when the fraternity boys pin their girlfriends, they use pledge pins. That way it's not someone wearing their actual badge. I wouldn't wear anyone else's badge. I feel that it would be a dishonour both to his organization and to Kappa. The pledge pin doesn't bother me so much, maybe because it represents just that, a pledge.
Just my 400 Lire.
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