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DivaStar, I think most people can identify to a degree with your situation. Let's face it, we all have our detractors as well as our
cheerleaders. You would not have been invited to share the sisterhood if there was real "credibility" to what anyone implied about you. (Unless of course your check SAVED the entire sorority from destruction!)
Sometimes there isn't a way around jealousy, other times we might need to do a little self check and we can USUALLY discover where the problem lies.
You CAN change things, but it takes effort. Depending on WHAT was implied. People cry foul when it involves areas like these.
If it involved something like another girl's boyfriend, just remember no matter how "hot", beautiful, sexy, or how much you make him "hurt", he's STILL another girl's boyfriend so just walk away.
If it involves drinking-either be the DD or have ONE in your hand and skip the Jello shots. Drink Coke or 7-Up. Staying sober doesn't mean you're not fun to be around. (Why don't people "get" this?)
Pick-ups-Next exchange or visit to a bar, lose the guys and just hang with the sisters.
Skanky-Check your attire and avoid looking like a video dancer on MTV.
Rude-Start every sentence with a POSITIVE comment.
Backstabber-Cut all gossip, and remember the old adage-If you can't say something nice...
It's not a matter of "But that's not ME." It's more a matter being the BEST you can be or at least showing another side of yourself.
Don't let her play mind games with you either.
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