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Four male co-workers and myself just talked about this on Monday. Realistically, it shouldn't be a problem because if you are two adults, you should be able to handle the relationship if one person confesses their love first. My co-workers all agreed that it's a scary thing when a woman uses the L-word, especially when they aren't feeling the love yet. Why is it that deep? I wish men understood that confessing one's love does not mean they should get ready to walk down the aisle and become a husband. It just means that love is in the air.
I think it doesn't matter if it is a serious relationship for both parties. (I speak from experience.) It does matter if the person is saying it to try to get the other person to the same point. It just ain't gonna happen.
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