[sassykd]

All of the questions provided are good ones, but i want to add my $0.02 in.

It seems a little odd to totally shy away from the social aspect of SOCIAL sororities. You don't want to dwell on it but the very nature of the organization implies that there are social aspects to the sisterhood. There are ways to ask about it without sounding like it is your only concern, however. We always encouraged PNMs to voice concerns they might have about it, "Does everyone drink", "Are you required to participate", "How has it interferred with your schoolwork". These are important things to know before you make a lifetime commitment to an organization.

Depending on the greek system at your school, find out how much greek mixing is done (not just boys and girls but girls with other girls) How much trouble is there with the GDIs?

Most importantly, the questions that are asked aren't really as important as paying attentions to the answers that you get. Listen to what the sister says...Does it seem overly rehersed or fake. Does the sister seem honest or is she just telling you what she thinks that you want to hear.

Hope this helps.

Melissa