O.K. I can't take it anymore. I have to say something. The way rush is run at most schools is totally unfair to the rushees. At my school, U.C.L.A. , every rushee is quaranteed a bid to some house if that rushee goes to every party that she is invited to. These rushees can sometimes push a house's quota up by a couple of people, but isn't it the fairest thing? When I was rush chairman at my house, every night I would get a call from panhell around midnight asking me if I would take so and so the next day.These were rushees that had been dropped out of rush but didn't know it yet. I ALWAYS SAID YES. Since these additional girls were freebees in addition to our numbers we were allowed , why not? These were great girls. How can a system let a girl go totally through rush and then have no invite to pref or worse.. no bid after going to pref parties? We as greeks need to rethink this situation. This is how greeks get a bed reputation. Don't we tout our good deeds and philanthropies? Are not we humanitarians? If we are... should we start with our selection process first?