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Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands
LOL I was just trying to get clarity on why that makes sense. I just notice patterns how chicks will make decisions in relationships where they end up with the upper hand. It’s just a pattern I’ve observed even in when they choose a partner. Most dudes seem to fall for the same okey-doke every time.
I haven’t heard very positive things about him. He’s given some negative commentary in the past about George Floyd that I didn’t like. He isn’t any more Christian than the Klan and David Duke claim to be.
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Frankly, I think I'm the only taking the risk. I've sold my house that I almost own outright to uproot my entire life to live on his side of the state with a mortgage higher than the one I have now. Trust me, a 401K grows faster than home equity.
You make it sound like I've made these decisions by myself. These are plans we've made together and will share in. It's going to be months before he can sell his house.
My agzg sister knows and understands what I'm doing and why. We have a ton of legal and financial playing to do. We have to consolidate our homes. He can't qualify for two simultaneous mortgages so he couldn't be on this mortgage right now. Honestly, this isn't even your business. We're sick of driving
5 hours every other weekend to be together so I'm moving to that side of the state. We're working together to get his house in his enough shape to sell it. Then he'll move in and we'll figure out when we want to get married. We have adult children to do estate planning for and he has one who needs lifelong assistance.
I do not make the decisions. He does not matter the decisions. We talk things through and problem solve and figure out what's best for us as a couple. That's why this is going to work.