[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Wait, so dude is selling his house, you already sold your house, and y’all are buying a camper? That’s a lot of permanent moves for a relationship that hasn’t even set a wedding date yet.

So the house consolidation and the camper, was that your idea, his idea, or did dopamine co-sign the whole plan? You sure this isn’t nostalgia making the decisions instead of wisdom?

Serious question though, what’s the bigger adjustment, merging two houses or merging two lives? I’m not trying to play devil’s advocate or pry, but damn, it’s only been a year.

I totally get where you’re coming from, Phrozen. I mean, fast moves do raise eyebrows. But sometimes love really is about timing. You don’t always meet the right person at the right age, or in the right season of life. Some people marry young and crash, others marry late and thrive. And I don’t believe it’s always about dopamine or nostalgia, I think it’s about finally finding the person whose rhythm matches yours. Know what I mean?

Whether it’s a year or ten years, merging houses and lives will always be a risk. But if you’ve waited decades to reconnect and it feels aligned, who’s to say a wedding date defines that timing? Some things you can only measure in faith, not formulas. That’s just my opinion based on my own experience.