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Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands
LMAO! Why do y’all all think I’m up to something? I’m just trying to keep GC fun. For real though, you told the story but not the whole thing. As I remember, you just said you tapped into dude’s v-mail and heard a chick, then packed up all dude’s gifts he got you, put it in a garbage bag and dropped it off in front of his fraternity house, which I thought was funny as hell. The mental image of it had me Lmao. You didn’t even knock? Dude didn’t try to explain himself? I’m just asking because you didn’t have any proof. Did he try to get you back? Did you go back? Was this when you were at the University of Minnesota? These are details you left out. Dude probably opened the door and said wtf? LOL!
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lol
Because you
are usually up to something.
This was when I was at UND. I was a cheerleader, he was on the football team, and he just happened to be in a fraternity too.
I didn’t need proof, I had peace. And that was enough. Besides, proof is for court, Phrozen. Intuition is for self-respect, which I’ve always had a lot of. But it wouldn’t matter, by the time I would’ve gotten the proof, I’d already returned the garbage bag of gifts he got me.
Things that are easily available and cost very little are often low in value and low in quality. So, some of my friends tried making excuses for him by telling me that he made a mistake, that I have too much pride and that I should take him back. I told them that it’s not pride, it’s pricing. I don’t hand out full price loyalty to discount behavior.
Bottom line is that I’m not a game. Honestly? I was the final exam that boy forgot to study for. He didn’t realize that dating me is like parking in a garage with security cameras. Try something stupid and see what happens. He didn’t get caught. He got figured out. That’s what happened.
He just didn’t get that I didn’t play games. I set boundaries, color code them, laminate them, and highlight them in pink.